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Delete Your Defaults

A show about hacking our social autopilot.

With Aaron Bieber & Rosa Carson

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Demons

A deep dive into KPop Demon Hunters—the absurd, hilarious, surprisingly moving movie that gave us demon boy bands, soul-sucking pop anthems, six-eyed magpies in tiny hats, and one of our favorite metaphors in a long time.

Freedom

We unpack the illusion of control and why confidence is built after you move; not before.

Perspective

In this episode, we explore perspective, the invisible spectacles you’re wearing every moment of your life.

Doubt

Doubt isn’t evidence that something is wrong with you; it’s often a sign that you’re standing at the edge of growth, exposure, and transformation.

Control

Let’s dismantle one of our most seductive illusions: that we’re in control, and that that’s what makes us safe.

Love

What if love isn’t a feeling, but a verb—a set of actions, choices, and ways of being?

Curiosity

In this episode we explore curiosity as a way of being, as a practice that softens defensiveness, loosens certainty, and reopens the doors your nervous system has been calling “walls.”

Perfectionism

In this episode, we pull apart “perfection” from multiple angles: the rigid, human version that freezes us in place, and the spacious, spiritual sense that everything is already perfect as it is.

Incentives

In this episode, we look under the hood of incentives: the seen and unseen forces that quietly steer our choices.
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