Delete Your Defaults
A show about hacking our social autopilot.
With Aaron Bieber & Rosa Carson
Latest Episodes
All Episodes →Courage
The story suggests that courage feels powerful, but we bust that myth in this conversation.
Demons
A deep dive into KPop Demon Hunters—the absurd, hilarious, surprisingly moving movie that gave us demon boy bands, soul-sucking pop anthems, six-eyed magpies in tiny hats, and one of our favorite metaphors in a long time.
Freedom
We unpack the illusion of control and why confidence is built after you move; not before.
Perspective
In this episode, we explore perspective, the invisible spectacles you’re wearing every moment of your life.
Doubt
Doubt isn’t evidence that something is wrong with you; it’s often a sign that you’re standing at the edge of growth, exposure, and transformation.
Control
Let’s dismantle one of our most seductive illusions: that we’re in control, and that that’s what makes us safe.
Love
What if love isn’t a feeling, but a verb—a set of actions, choices, and ways of being?
Curiosity
In this episode we explore curiosity as a way of being, as a practice that softens defensiveness, loosens certainty, and reopens the doors your nervous system has been calling “walls.”
Perfectionism
In this episode, we pull apart “perfection” from multiple angles: the rigid, human version that freezes us in place, and the spacious, spiritual sense that everything is already perfect as it is.
Latest Articles
All Articles →The other side of discomfort
This is a companion article for our conversation about discomfort, which you may also like to listen to. Everything we want lies on the other side of discomfort. Here’s the problem: we’re …
Sailing on the waves of life
Sailing on the waves of life: a practical guide to releasing control “Sailing on the waves of life” is the practice of releasing your grip on outcomes you can’t actually control, and …